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Let's get one thing straight right off the bat: while making your ex jealous can help you get them back, it can also completely ruin your chances forever.
This isn't something you want to try uness you've already got hold of a top-notch program that will walk you through the process of creating jealousy (click here to check out my recommended guide to winning your ex back).
How can making your ex jealous backfire and kill your chances of getting your ex back into your arms? Simple: it can cause your ex to hate you! The key to using jealousy to win back an ex is to do it totally 'under the radar', in such a manner than your ex feels jealous without ever realizing that you're actively trying to make them feel that way.
In other words, you want your ex to feel jealous in a natural way, without knowing you ever put an ounce of effort into making them jealous.
Wondering how you can make your ex jealous without breaking the rules I mentioned above? Here are a few ideas:
Again, with all of these ideas, you need to be very careful to seem natural. You don't want your ex to catch on to your attemps to incite jealousy. But all of them will do just enough to kick-start your ex's imagination and wonder whether you're seeing someone new or moving on after the breakup.
Two things will be very helpful to you when you're trying to make your ex jealous: social media, and mutual friends. If you have your ex on various social networks (ie Facebook) then you'll be able to share information directly with them in a casual and natural way.
Similarly, if you share common friends with your ex (or if you have a way of communicating natural with your ex's friends), you can leak information that might incite jealousy in the back of your ex's mind.