Phase 1: Initial Steps
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The Final Step To Success
So, you've gone through the 'no contact' period... you've made your ex miss you and long for your company again... you've casually re-established communication... and you've maybe even made your ex a bit jealous along the way.
Now it's time for the final 'killer blow': it's time to make your ex fall back in love with you. For good.
Seducing Your Ex All Over Again
I wish I could tell you that getting your ex to fall back in love with you will an easy task. Unfortunately, that's not really the case, but if you've already made it this far then you're in pretty good shape.
The 'no communication' phase has already set the stage for you and your ex to fall back in love, because he or she will be missing you and have a little bit of nostalgia about the love you shared in the past. So that's half of the work already done for you.
Since I assume you've already started having some brief, casual conversations with your ex already -- either by phone, text, or email -- you've also got back in your ex's mind. So what next? Well, the final objective will be to meet up with your ex in a casual setting (ie for coffee) where you'll show off the "new you" again.
Where you meet your ex or what you do with them isn't particularly important. Going out for drinks, going to a sporting event, grabbing a casual lunch, or walking along the pier... these are all perfectly good ways to re-connect with your ex. Just keep in mind that you should still be focusing on friendly, light-hearted conversation that doesn't revolve around the past or your romantic history together.
Not More Of The Same
When you do meet with your ex, it's a great chance to show him or her that you've been doing great since the breakup. You'll be able to show some of your 'high value' traits (don't know what I'm talking about? Watch the free video here.) that will demonstrate to your ex they made a mistake when they first decided to let you walk away.
The first few times you hang out with your ex again, you shouldn't bring up any 'serious' topics, such as the nature of your breakup or the things that led to it. You don't want to bring back your ex's negative memories or remind them why you broke up... you want to keep things fun and upbeat to show your ex how great things can be if you get back together again.
Making The Move To Physical Romance
The final step in making your ex fall back in love with you is to make the leap from casual meeting over coffee or drinks to a night of romance and passion. How you transition from these first few hangouts to sex will depend on your ex's feelings & willingness to go along with it, but the end goal should always be the same: turn simple hangouts into physical romance.
Once you've got your ex in bed with you again, you've finished 99% of the work. Your ex clearly has feelings for you still, and you're in a great position to keep things moving forward. At this point, remember to keep things fun so that you and your boyfriend or girlfriend can stay interested and live happily ever after!
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